A “Your Mama” Story

The constant chatter of baby birds has been my background music lately, as the second brood of the season has arrived. I saw this young Red-bellied Woodpecker clinging to the peanut feeder this morning, fiercely fending off the Brown-headed Nuthatches who were none to pleased by his presence.


Now, let’s be honest. When baby birds first hatch they are ugly. We’re talking capital letter exclamation point UGLY!

Some birds, like bluebirds, gain a measure of cuteness by the time they leave the nest.


Others take longer to overcome their lack of color and coordination. Red-bellied Woodpeckers fall into this category. In fact, they are often so awkward in appearance that our family has come to use that very adjective as their nickname. You will frequently hear someone in our house call out, “There’s an awkward on the feeder!”


When I see a young Red-bellied, I often smile as a story from my past comes to mind…

Many years ago, I worked as a Speech Pathologist in Baltimore’s inner city school system. One of my favorite students was a fifth grade girl named Cheron. She was a tough kid, with loud words and louder fists, but I had a tender spot for her in my heart. For some reason she returned my affection.

Cheron had an abrasive voice (that matched her abrasive attitude) and as a result, had ended up with a nice pair of vocal nodules. Part of her treatment plan was to decrease the amount of yelling that she did. Trust me; this was not as easy as it sounds!

One day, after school, she burst into my classroom beaming. “Miss Hoyt! Miss Hoyt! (my maiden name) – You be so proud of me! There was this girl bothering me on the playground and I did not yell at her. No, I did not yell. I got right up in her face and said, ‘Your Mama had an ugly baby!’”

I have never forgotten how oddly proud of her I felt at that moment; nor have I forgotten the cleverness of her insult!

At any rate, whenever I see a young bird that hasn’t quite grown out of its awkwardness, I hear Cheron’s voice in my head as I lovingly say to them, “Your Mama had an ugly baby!”


About kathydoremus

Wife, mother, daughter, and friend. One who dabbles in writing, thinks in rhyme, and is utterly unable to escape the allure of alliteration:) Amateur nature photographer. A backyard bird watcher, a hiker of non-strenuous trails to waterfalls, and a fan of Atlanta sports teams. Driver of an orange Jeep Renegade who goes by the name of Earl. One who is nourished by silence, solitude, and a good cup of coffee. A lover of God’s Word and the riches that are hidden there. An extremely ordinary jar of clay who longs to see and be satisfied by the glory of God, and to somehow display that in my everyday life.
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7 Responses to A “Your Mama” Story

  1. Sue says:

    Great story! Are your young Red-bellied woodpeckers lacking a tail? I was surprised to see them perching vertically on tree trunks but with no tail supports.

  2. kathydoremus says:

    They have tails, but I think the camera angle didn’t show them well. I’m not sure they have totally figured out how to use them though!

  3. Teresa Staley says:

    Cardinal babies crack me up. The first time I saw one, I thought he was deformed or was ill. Slowly the feathers on his head grew in and his momma’s baby wasn’t so ugly!

  4. kathydoremus says:

    I know! The first time I saw a cardinal baby I thought the same thing. They definitely fall into the ugly baby category!

  5. I loved your story! And the part about your family saying there’s an “awkward” on the feeder. LOL I’ve had plenty of awkwards at my house, too. Love ’em! 🙂

  6. jcblithe says:

    Great story and I love the photos. Having moved to South Florida from Maryland the scenery in your photos reminds me of home. Thanks for the heartwarming pics, and fun to read blog.

  7. kathydoremus says:

    Thanks. I grew up in Maryland and think it is an absolutely beautiful state – one of those states where you actually get four seasons. Now I am in North Georgia, but a lot of the scenery is similar. 🙂

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